Co-Workers Who Care

Co-Workers Who Care

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process a loss of a pet. On a beautiful Thursday evening, Gail took her two dogs, a large huskie named Max, and a small poodle mix, Minnie, for a walk. The two dogs enjoyed playing with each other. This time Max was playing more aggressively than usual with Minnie. Gail quickly attempted to pull Max away f

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Navigating the Holidays After a Loss

Navigating the Holidays After a Loss

by Andrea Tam

My first suggestion is to tell yourself and others that this year will be different. Keeping up appearances and maintaining some traditions can drain your energy. You can conserve your energy by being honest with yourself and others. This year your holiday activities will be different, and that is ok. Your honesty and lack of expectations will free you from disappointments.

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Wildflowers

Wildflowers

by Andrea Tam

"Look, Sky, I know you're heartbroken, but isn't it time you start leaning into your life? You and Chris were not great together. I never liked the effect he had on you. I know you lost a relationship that was important to you, but what are you doing after the loss?" asked Kathy.

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The Rainbow Baby

The Rainbow Baby

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process loss of a baby. Amanda and Curt had been dating for four years. Amanda was an Administrative Assistant for an accountant, and Curt worked in logistics for UPS. In early 2020, Amanda suspected she was pregnant, so she bought a pregnancy test.

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Schmoopy Wasn't Just a Dog

Schmoopy Wasn't Just a Dog

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process the loss of a pet. My beloved, 11-year-old dog, Schmoopy, died a year ago. It was a significant loss for me. In 2010, my husband, Brad, had a rare form of brain cancer. He insisted that we adopt a puppy. I thought it was a ridiculous idea. However, Brad persuades me to be open to getting

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A New York-Style Ofrenda

A New York-Style Ofrenda

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process the loss of a loved one. "It's New York-style cheesecake or die! Amelia, how can you not love New York-style cheesecake? It is the best cheesecake in the world!" said Samuel. Amelia remembered how her brother, Samuel, used to argue with her about which cheesecake was the best as she place

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A Lot to Unpack

A Lot to Unpack

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process the loss of a relationship. After 20 years of marriage and three children, Rocco divorced his wife. According to Rocco, the divorce had been in the works for several years. Rocco heard about a gift box and journal designed to help people process the loss of a relationship, so he ordered one for himself. He was intrigued by it.

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The Tattoo

The Tattoo

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process the loss of a pet. Thirteen years ago, Adam filed for legal separation from his ex-wife and moved into a small apartment. He was lonely and had always wanted a dog, so he went to a local shelter and adopted Rocket, a female, eight-week-old, Cockapoo. Adam's legal separation quickly turned

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A Gratitude Walk

A Gratitude Walk

by Andrea Tam

There are many ways to process loss of a loved one. Natalie lost her son, Daniel, in a car accident. She was overwhelmed with grief and could barely function. For weeks, she would lay in bed and grieve for her beloved son. One day her husband suggested she go to the park. Natalie had always loved the park near their home. Her family

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